A marriage made in……a Supermarket ? !

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There was nothing half-price about Rebecca; she looked a million dollars ūüėČ

Saturday 1323¬†–¬† 28.03.2015

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I went to the supermarket today and to a wedding. 

Both at the same time.

I didn’t know the Bride or the Groom: at all. They were strangers to me and I only decided to go an hour beforehand !¬†

You think I’m talking nonsense don’t you; that I’ve finally lost my reason but I can assure you I haven’t.

I guess I had better explain.¬†At lunchtime today I¬†saw on the local news, online,¬†that a couple were getting married in a supermarket today, not far from where I live. As I started 1500 Saturdays to encourage me to do things that I wouldn’t normally do on a Saturday,¬† I couldn’t resist taking myself off to the wedding.¬†¬† Don’t worry I wasn’t exactly gate-crashing because Rebecca and Blake, the bride and groom, said everyone was welcome.

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The supermarket stayed open to customers and it was surreal to watch the bride walking through the fresh veg section , food aisles and passing shoppers, on her way to the supermarket cafe where her bridegroom was waiting. 

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Was that 2 bridesmaids for ¬£4 !¬† The bridesmaids were Rebecca’s 2 daughters Naomi and Rosie. Her grandson Charlie carried the rings.

It was, of course, a press free for all, with lots of TV cameras and press photographers.. I needed my elbows sharpened and had to use my wide-angle lens otherwise you’d see nothing but photographers!¬†!¬† I didn’t stay for the actual ceremony just long enough to take a few photos.

The back story¬† – Their landlady introduced them in September 2014 and on their first date they had curry and chips in Morrison Supermarket’s cafe and that’s what they ,and their small number of “proper” guests, ate for the “wedding breakfast”.¬†

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The couple were actually officially married at a registry office before a Humanist celebrant presided over their supermarket wedding.

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Hats off to Morrison’s for helping to arrange all this!¬† It was FABUUUUUULOUS !!¬† and very, very¬†memorable. I love a bit¬†of eccentricity don’t you ?

One of the nice things was that the wedding party also had buckets with them to collect money instead of wedding presents and the money collected was for the Alzheimer’s Society. You can find out why¬†https://www.justgiving.com/beccawooller ¬† ( you will have to copy and paste the link because it’s not working for some reason!)¬†

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Well done Rebecca and Blake that was a very nice touch.

Wishing you both a long and happy life together, filled with love and laughter.

As ever I welcome your thoughts.

Saturday girl signing off til whenever ūüôā

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You win some. You lose some.

Saturday 1452 –¬†29th Sept 2012.

This morning I spent a lot of time thinking ( I REALLY shouldn’t. I think, I think¬†too much! ) and the reason for that this week is because yesterday (Friday 28th Sept – just imprinting that date) 2 momentous things happened to me on the very opposite ends of the happiness spectrum.

The happy bit ?¬†¬† I made the last mortgage payment on my house so it is now mine.. Wey hey !!¬† I had about 4 hours to celebrate this and then came the not so happy bit, sitting in front of my GP¬†I was told I had been diagnosed with Type 2 diabetes.¬† He assured me that it was no good me thinking “maybe there has been some mistake and it’s not really that bad” ( he knows me well)¬† that I have 3 indicators and there is no doubt..no doubt AT ALL. I am thankful to him for being so clear.

First I thought well it’s only Type 2 it would be worse if it was Type 1 diabetes but as my late brother died at 53 and one of the contributing factors was his Type 2 diabetes which he did not manage well I know¬†that Type 2 must be taken seriously because it is a progressive condition.

If it is not well-managed it can lead to long-term health complications affecting many areas of the body including eyes, heart, kidneys, nerves and feet. 

My reaction to this news? Within the space of a few hours I cried, raged, blamed myself because I have a very sweet tooth, laughed with a true friend, walked by a beautiful lake and meditated.

Nothing was changed except my attitude. I thought how lucky I was that, by chance of birth, I had been born in a country where the access to services and care of people with diabetes is very good indeed and it IS just that isn’t it.. the luck of the draw.¬†

How wrong is that? 

Very, very wrong because although I am an individual I am no different to any other person on this planet, I don’t deserve good care any more, or less, than any other human being and that makes me sad indeed.¬† We should all try to work towards ending this inequality.

I thought how lucky I was that my diabetes was discovered by accident because of blood tests that were taken for something else entirely and showed high blood glucose levels and it was suggested I have fasting bloods which identified it. I consider this very lucky because Type 2 diabetes can be more or less symptomless for many years

Immediately after I wrote this and while I was still researching on Diabetes UK I read an article on the website which indicates that there are thousands of people with high risk factors who are not being screened. I urge you to take a few minutes to read the article¬† “Flaws in NHS Health Check have “dire consequences” for Type 2 diabetes” here ¬† I did have fasting bloods taken in 2010 and they were just within the normal range.

As for me I am where I am now and it¬†goes some way to explaining how I’ve been feeling.¬†I’m sure it will take a while to adjust to this news and make the necessary lifestyle changes to manage my diabetes but it’s just another of life’s hurdles to get over, under or round. We all have them don’t we and what defines us as a person is how we deal with them.¬† I intend to stay positive because I have been given a metaphorical kick up the backside and now have an opportunity to improve my health and fitness which will have lots of long-term mental and physical benefits. Life is for living and I intend to try to enjoy it as much as possible :D.

I thought this would be a good place to dispel a few myths because as I have already mentioned I was blaming myself so checked out what the Diabetes Uk website had to say about that and this is what I found.

Some things that do not cause diabetes

  • Eating sweets and sugar does not cause diabetes,but eating a lot of sugary and fatty foods can lead to being overweight.
  • You cannot catch diabetes, like a cold.
  • Stress does not cause diabetes, although it may make the symptoms worse in people who already have the condition.
  • An accident or an illness will not cause diabetes but may reveal diabetes if it is already there.

But these ARE the recognised risk factors for Type 2 Diabetes  according to Diabetes UK

Some of the risks factors associated with Type 2 diabetes are out of your control while others, such as being overweight, you can act on to reduce the risk of developing diabetes. You should ask your GP for a test for diabetes, if you:

  • are white and over 40 years old
  • are black, Asian or from a minority ethnic group and over 25 years old
  • have one or more of the following risk factors –
  • A close member of your family has Type 2 diabetes (parent or brother or sister). (brother in my case)
  • You’re overweight or if your waist is 31.5 inches or over for women; 35 inches or over for Asian men and 37 inches or over for white and black men.
  • You have high blood pressure or you’ve had a heart attack or a stroke.
  • You’re a woman with polycystic ovary syndrome and you are overweight.
  • You’ve been told you have impaired glucose tolerance or impaired fasting glycaemia.
  • If you’re a woman and you’ve had gestational diabetes.
  • You have severe mental health problems.

¬†But I am a couple of stones overweight so I did increase my risk and that’s why I am sharing this on my blog today because some of the risk factors mentioned are in our control.. particularly the overweight and heart ones.¬†¬† Oh and by the way Steve Redgrave the 5 times Olympic gold medallist was diagnosed with diabetes in 1997 and went on to win his 5th gold medal after that.. inspirational . You can read what he says about it by clicking on his name and there’s a link there to a useful website for people with diabetes who want to take up sport or are already sportsmen/women.

I know I have readers from all over the globe so please do check out what help is available in your own countries – isn’t the internet great for this sort of thing !

If any of you my readers have a nagging feeling that you might have diabetes or are in high risk groups get it checked out with your doctor.. it’s very easy too.

Ending on a¬†much happier note. I was at the wedding of good friends Jo and Peter today and had¬†a great time.. I will probably do an extra post this week to share some of the photos from this very happy event but I will share just one with you. It’s a photo of the photographer and he just spotted me as I was about to click and pulled this face.. It made me laugh and he did too¬†when I showed it to him.

Oh and don’t forget I¬†HAVE paid off my mortgage.¬† YIPPEE

See ya’ll next week

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